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August 2026 Edition · A First Look

A Preview From My Upcoming Book, What Moves People.

On a drizzly Sunday, you head to the museum. You approach a solitary marble statue — and next to it, a sign reading "Do Not Touch The Art!" You're a rule-abiding person. And yet…

You find yourself wanting to touch that damn art. There's nothing special about it — you know what marble feels like — but there's something about being told what to do (or not to do) that just makes you want to revolt. The phenomenon has a name: psychological reactance. And understanding it changes everything about how you try to move someone.

This month, instead of the usual research digest, I'm sharing the first few pages of Chapter 4 of my upcoming book — "Minds Open from the Inside" — covering:

  • Why we instinctively rebel against being told what to do — and Jack Brehm's 1966 argument that this "anti-coercion detection system" likely had genuine survival value.
  • Nisbett & Cohen's culture-of-honor work and a 2021 global study by Cao, Enke, and colleagues showing the psychological residue of herding societies still shows up across dozens of countries today.
  • The "paradoxical physics of persuasion" — why the more force you apply to an argument, the less likely you are to move the person on the other side of it (and what to do instead).

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The Archive

Every Issue, All In One Place.

Browse every past edition of the newsletter — from motivated reasoning to moral translation, one concept per month, always research-grounded.

  1. July 2026

    The July 2026 Newsletter

    Why your most reasonable argument keeps bouncing off the people who most need to hear it — and the technique that closes the "moral empathy gap."

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  2. June 2026

    The June 2026 Newsletter

    A small, well-placed stumble can humanize a high-status communicator and make them more — not less — persuasive. Done poorly, it just looks like incompetence.

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  3. May 2026

    The May 2026 Newsletter

    The hardest part of disagreement isn't getting your facts straight — it's making the other person feel that talking with you is worth the effort.

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  4. April 2026

    The April 2026 Newsletter

    In a world where all conventional wisdom suggests that designers aim to 'remove friction,' could adding a bit of friction actually increase engagement and commitment?

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  5. March 2026

    The March 2026 Newsletter

    To catalyze change, stop trying to convince the majority - science says it's not necessary. Instead, build a visible, committed minority, then let the social math do the rest.

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  6. February 2026

    The February 2026 Newsletter

    The fastest way to kill employee motivation isn't difficult work or low pay, but the sinking suspicion that their effort serves no purpose.

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  7. January 2026

    The January 2026 Newsletter

    The most powerful force shaping our choices is often completely invisible to us (despite hiding in plain sight).

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  8. December 2025

    The December 2025 Newsletter

    If you want to soften someone's stance and open them up to considering alternative views, it helps to shift from asking "why" to asking "how."

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  9. November 2025

    The November 2025 Newsletter

    Our choices are not always based on static preferences but can sometimes be manipulated based on how options are presented.

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  10. October 2025

    The October 2025 Newsletter

    Why sharing your own stories (and encouraging another to share theirs) might be the most effective way to change someone's mind.

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  11. September 2025

    The September 2025 Newsletter

    When our attitudes and our behaviors are not aligned, our brains are determined to change one of them to restore balance.

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  12. August 2025

    The August 2025 Newsletter

    Connection and belonging are more than just "nice feelings" - they're deep evolutionary urges with ties to survival.

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  13. July 2025

    The July 2025 Newsletter

    Our brains care more about being a "good" group member than about being accurate.

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